I have never pooled myself in the category of people who lose their identities the moment they get into a relationship. While I've been guilty of diving head first into past dynamics, I've clung to the handing threads of fabric that make up who I am. Being single for the span of years was conducive to this. All energy and focus exerted by me was on me, and I came to conclusions and interests that suited the woman I am and continue to evolve into. They say love is blind, and while that proves to be true in some instances, I don't know that I'm in full agreement. Instead, I believe love has the ability to soften hardened hearts, in turn opening closed minds to new ideas and experiences. Even I, a stubborn Taurus, have been mastered by love. With ManFriend, my horizons have expanded (though sometimes reluctantly) and I have been able to push past limits. I may have been kicking and screaming at times, but somehow, becoming acquainted with the new has helped me to feel f...
Sometimes, shit happens. LOL ;)